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Katy Whitney

I have over 15 years of experience providing therapeutic support to individuals, children and families.


My approach is tailored to your unique needs, blending counselling and mediation skills with a flexible coaching style to facilitate lasting change. I will work with you to develop your strengths and better understand what may be holding you back. 


I hold an MSc in Attachment Studies and trained as a Humanistic Integrative Counsellor, gaining experience in NHS, education and charity sector placements. I also led an award-winning pastoral, therapeutic and safeguarding initiative in the education sector. 


Additionally, I am a qualified Family Mediator (working towards accreditation). Registered with the Family Mediation Association (FMA) and Family Mediation Council (FMC).



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Individuals

I have extensive experience providing therapeutic support to adults and believe that everyone has the potential for meaningful change. Together, we’ll explore your thoughts and feelings by creating an impartial, trusting and supportive therapeutic alliance. I offer both short-term and long-term work.

Families

I provide a supportive and structured space where family members can explore their dynamics, address challenges and develop healthier ways of interacting. By thinking together to better understand these dynamics, families can foster understanding, empathy and make long lasting change. I have a particular interest in parental dynamics and the promotion of co-parenting - even in the most difficult situations. I see family members together and/or individually.

Family Mediation

At Holding Families Mediation, we are dedicated to providing compassionate support during challenging times. Family mediation is a non-court dispute resolution process that helps families navigate the complexities of divorce and separation without the stress and expense of going to court. We assist with matters such as childcare arrangements, finances and property.

With the support of a qualified, impartial mediator(s), you and your ex-partner can have calm, structured conversations to reach decisions that feel fair and practical for everyone involved—especially your children. At Holding Families Mediation, we work with accredited Child Inclusive Mediators to incorporate the child’s voice into the process, where appropriate and promote the model of co-mediation. Mediation is about cooperation—not confrontation and it  encourages both of you to listen, feel heard and shape your own solutions. We understand that family matters are deeply personal and behind every conflict lies a shared history and hopes for the future. Most importantly, when both of you take part in creating the agreement, it’s far more likely to succeed in the long run.

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Children

I have worked with children for over 15 years as a therapeutic coach and pastoral lead, as well as a safeguarding lead within education. I am passionate about ensuring that all children have the opportunity to thrive, and my sessions are always child-led, creating a safe and supportive space in which each child can explore their world.

Collaborations

At the heart of The Holding Collective is a spirit of collaboration and creativity — bringing together thoughtful, dynamic professionals who are passionate about making meaningful change.  I am currently collaborating with  'Totally Flawed' - an innovative drumming and therapeutic workshop for adults.

At Holding Families Mediation, I co-mediate with a team of qualified and/or accredited mediators.

I also work systemically alongside a play therapist and a child well-being practitioner.

These partnerships enable me to integrate creative and holistic therapeutic approaches, providing unique and engaging support for children, individuals and families.

Fees

Please contact Katy for more information on fees and to discuss your own personal situation.


The Space/ ONLINE

The space is nestled within the creative hub of Blue House Yard in Wood Green. It is warm, welcoming, and private, offering a comfortable and safe environment. 


Easily accessible by public transport - being a five minute walk from Wood Green Tube Station and a ten minute walk from Alexandra Palace Station.  It also has convenient local parking facilities for those driving.


I also offer online sessions.


Testimonials

'Katy is a warm, empathic and trustworthy professional. She builds wonderful relationships with all the families she works with and has the super-power of being able to win over even the hardest to reach children, as well as being great working with family dynamics. Nothing phases her!'


SENDCo, North London 

'I have worked with Katy since 2017, she is child and family focussed. It's fantastic to work with a professional that makes positive changes in families lives. She is warm, efficient and has a wealth of experience that shows in her knowledge. You are in safe hands with Katy.'


Play Therapist, North London

'I have had the pleasure of knowing Katy for over ten years. She is an expert when it comes to family support and well-being. Katy has changed lives, and saved lives with her unrivalled knowledge, expertise and holistic approach when it comes to families and young people. I can say this with utmost confidence as my family benefited from Katy’s care and experience when we went through divorce.'  


Parent, North London

Accolades: 

Guardian Newspaper Public Service Award Winner - Health and Wellbeing (Project Lead), 2017

Haringey Support Staff of the Year, 2017

Guest speaker at The Royal Society of Medicine's Annual Innovation Awards, 2018

Mental Health in Schools workshop, SecEd Conference, 2018

Collaborative work with The British Council on therapeutic services abroad within education

Collaborative partnership with Haringey Council on their successful Trailblazer funding bid 

Featured on the BBC podcast documentary 'People Fixing the World'  - 'The school that puts wellbeing first'

The Holding Collective

Blue House Yard, River Park Road, London N22 7TB, UK

katy@theholdingcollective.com 07723 550590

Contact Katy at The Holding Collective for a free 20 minute consultation or to book a Family Mediation initial appointment

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